im open to talk to, this was really ****ing hard for me to say i’ve always had these chats with older girls and others and i always nodded and i always knew i’d say no and stand up for myself, i like to think im pretty confident and know my limits, especially during chats like these but i didnt and let myself get taken advantage of. i love u all and please respect yourself, like i said im open to talk to about anything xx

your self respect. please. i get it in middle n high school it’s everything to go out w boys n shit but please dont do anything you are not ready for and say no. for your sake dont do it if your only intention is to fit in because ‘everyone else already has done it’ thats no excuse. if you’re seriously not ready please dont let yourself be disrespected like that i feel so embarassed for myself back then and it’s heartbreaking because he spread rumours about me to his mates and it’s not a good feeling at all please respect yourself and know what you want going into situations like these

ts is pretty important n serious, not smt i do a lot but yeah so a few months ago i was in a situationship w a boy, we hung out a lot, took him to formal and i always had an iffy feeling about him but i just thought it was dramatic or wtv he ended up talking to 3 other girls at the same time, which i dont really care i’m not bothered about that part when we hung out for the first few times, he was fine, but he’s a 16 year old boy yk they want to do shit um so the next hangout hew forced himself on me, its taken me a while to come to terms with this but yeah, i didnt say no or anything because i was so scared, genuinely i remember thinking if i get through these next few minutes i can go home and um yeah i’ve always been one to respect myself and know when to say no but it all left me in that moment for some ****ass boy’s validation that i wasnt even ready for, i just didnt know how to say no because in the moment it just happens so fast i guess my point is please please please do not let any boy berate

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