if you give him a chance and he does truly improve then thats an absolute win and you broke thru odds! i hope you do either grow with him or find people who make you feel welcome and supported enough that cutting ties for the betterment of your mental health is an option you can choose :D

it really does sound like a true support system is whats preventing you from leaving learning to heal and love yourself requires pain, with or without people in your life. it sucks i know cos ive been thru it too, but i still found a way to cope and heal in the aftermath. my ex cheated on me so i was kind of thrown into single life with no friends and it hurt, but i wish i was much stronger to just live with myself and not spend so much time wondering what i could have done differently to make him love me more and for us to argue less. i think all it takes is just one deep breath and a text message that you send with your eyes closed. then afterwards you can grieve and grow and then put yourself out there for better or worse friendships youre not being unreasonable at all :) i get it cos i was that person who was scared of leaving the only person i had, and it defo takes time no matter who you are <3 no one will be mad at you for your choices, theyre yours:)

oh hell nah youre never responsible for the feelings of others, even if its your partner. this guy sounds absolutely terrible, and if hes getting mad at you for things you cant control or dont involve you, then youre not a partner, youre a punching bag. i think you should establish boundaries, like not wanting to go over to your bfs house and be stuck there is an amazing one and its so valid, i wouldnt want to be stuck with someone whos temper is always prime to burst either. you should defo just take some time to yourself and write out everything hes been doing/ saying to make you uncomfortable and confront him (tho im ngl i would block my bf if he started being even remotely disrespectful, but thats just me) and if he reacts poorly or gets mad at you for standing your ground, then you should leave him :( this is just advice you dont have to take it but yeah- dont let that guy control you or make you feel bad for making good choices.

WOOOO IM GETTING HIM A TEDDY BEAR LETS GO

thats like hunting for gold and there are like 3 billion land mines omg