me when i get out the shower

They sent death threats to my friend and then tried to justify it by saying, 'Oh, but they did things to their ex!' You've got it all wrong. If you're only seeing the world through their ex's eyes, you're only getting one side of the story. Imagine if you were going through a tough time, and someone sent you death threats, defending themselves with, 'No, but you deserved it because of (insert some ridiculous reason here).'

I *was* there when it happened -^-

oh, and I definitely don't trust anyone who makes literal death threats

stop making excuses for yourself