My Step-dad is a little weird
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AGoreyDemise[OP]
16.02.2022 19:15
Linkbefore i do type id like to let you know ive never told my mother anything, shes not someone id talk to about this plus i don't think she'll believe me
AGoreyDemise[OP]
16.02.2022 19:23
Linkim only saying it here because i don't think anyone is really going to notice or care cuz why would they?
anyway this started around a year or two ago maybe? i don't remember. the first thing i can think of was a 'daddy daughter' date (i hadn't told them i didn't use she/her anymore) we were watching that cat in the hat movie (i only remember that cuz we kept bashing it) and he had moved behind me and started rubbing my shoulders, i don't like being touched so i moved and asked him not to.
months later around the time after my brother was born(he was starting to stand) he and i were in the basement because thats his office and i was helping with my brother, i had bent down to pick the baby up and he said he had the urge to slap my ass. i laughed it off and left.
then getting closer to my brother's first birthday (i had said something about this here once) he was helping me with a waist trainer, after we had gotten it on he picked me up and fell back on the bed- (1/2)
AGoreyDemise[OP]
16.02.2022 19:28
Linkagain im not into the whole touching thing so i rolled off him and left the room, it made me extremely uncomfortable and i later told him so he said sorry and we left it at that.
but the one time he did something weird that really got to me was around the time my brother was learning to stand he had told me about a dream he had, i don't remember what started the conversation but we got to weird dreams and he had told me his.
The dream was my mother had left or died and it was just me and him (never said anything about my sister) taking care of my brother and that one night we were laying in my parents bed and to make a long story short..in his dream we "tried making a baby"
AGoreyDemise[OP]
16.02.2022 19:29
Link^^(2/2)^^
AGoreyDemise[OP]
16.02.2022 19:30
LinkIm saying all this now because i wanted to get it off my chest.
my bio father did things like this too but mostly to my sister.
im about 1000% sure dads don't do this.
AGoreyDemise[OP]
16.02.2022 19:48
Linki literally don't have any proof other than what i've said, he had not physically touched me so even if i did go to the cops he could deny and i could get reprimanded for trying to get this taken care of.
thats why i haven't told anyone nor called the cops.
im literally a minor and from expreenance no one listens to a child, i see no point in making it a big unnecessary thing if its really just nothing.
i want proof but i don't want to put myself somewhere i don't want to be either.
Ew. Im sorry you have to go threw that that is not ok. Just reading this makes me feel uncomfy. Im realy sorry he dose that is there was someone you could tell about this?
If you’re ever talking with him, record it. Do it for a long time. Try to gather as much evidence as possible. Then bring it to the authorities.