"Femboy" is a term usually describing feminine men. Over the years, it's been less and less claimed by trans men who've become comfortable feeling in touch with their feminine side. Cisgender femboys, I don't really know much about so I'm sharing this through the trans man perspective. (I formerly identified as strictly he/him for three years, now I just go by whatever and identify as Non-Binary, but I still have a right to this opinion because I myself have been fetishized.)

More and more I see Cis(sometimes Het) men call any small or petite man a femboy, and yes it could be a term to describe a feminine man, it's now just very fu/cking fetish-y. When I usually see someone being called a femboy, it's almost always in an objectifying way now. It makes me feel just as uncomfortable when a woman uses it, because it just feels... weird. I have my own personal stories with being called one, and it's always by either a woman or a man. (Almost always cis.) When I first rode the bus, this person asked me my name, pronouns, and gender. (He/They at the time.) And they just said, "Oh, so you're a femboy!" That's the only story that made me the least uncomfortable to share.

Once again I don't care if you identify with the label, or use the label, it just makes /ME/ uncomfortable. I see no reason you'd have to use that terminology on my account, unless you were to describe a character of mine, or me. (That makes me uncomfortable.)

*Should note the person on the bus called me a femboy because I was dressing very femininely Forgot to add that part auhg

I made this because I got called a femboy on disc again by a kid I knew from MIDDLE SCHOOL and haven't seen them since then, and they still be doin' this shit :|