so my bday is coming up soon (december 7) and I wanna ask my mom for a haircut, to cut my hair shorter, should i tell her? i asked my bff the same question and she said no, "your hair is already a big mess anyways" which was so true lmao I know I can choose since its gonna be planned on my bday but I cant decide, I wanna be a different person and change and relieve my stress by cutting my hair, if I do there might be a chance It would boost my confidence up again, should I tell her after the weekend? or should I just stay the way I am?