So basically, she is also a K A R E N ? ? ?

And good luck living and surviving with that woman.

pfft

Kiggle you are quality gold at making Karen jokes. They are koala-brained. But you kno what's worse... M O N K E Y B R A I N

well yea, but they can b stupid.

Yea.

2/2 I kinda hope my girl child doesn't want to be super prissy when she's older but I could live with it as long as she doesn't scream around bugs or something obnoxious, lol.

It takes time for them to not be super awkward! I had a ton of these so-called transgender symptoms. One really awful thing I did was never ever wear bras, I'd wear baggy shirts and hunch over all the time. I refused to do sports even if I really wanted to :( My mom would yell at me about heat strokes because I'd be riding my bike in 100 degree weather in a sweater. I had "boobs" since I was about 11 but didn't wear bras regularly until I was 15 I think. YEAH. I really hated them until I realized they're actually nice! and I can wear comfy sports bras! The cramping goes away soon too, I remember that part. You're just physically imbalanced rn because this is all very new still. Don't worry about the size either, lots of people like small ones! I get jealous because small boobers can wear cute bras, usually all I get is ugly ass beige underwire torture devices (unless I go online and even that sucks.) You can also wear shirts that are 'revealing' without being accused of being slutty. (1/2)

2/2 if I wear so much as a V-neck its like "ooooh who are you trying to show off for?? Don't you think that's too sexual for being at a playground??" Like okay I'm not trying to sexually harass everyone to be comfortable. Also, you're not bothered by the physical irritation of having them slide into your armpits when you lay down or be painful when running. Like, people with small boobs have all the perks of boobs but less of the annoying parts- imo. Hahaha! Yes you are naturally gorgeous, nothing with stating the facts lol. That is so weird she wants you to wear dresses like WHAT. No one even wears dresses I swear. She doesn't ! Never saw her in one in any photo- ever. I think she's a little better already. I heard she started out bulimic for a while. That's really harmful. Then it was starving and being scrawny. Now she's obessesed with working out, I can admire the progression

I understand! It took me so long so come to this conclusion but I think it comes from the idea that "girl" is like a character type that someone has to fit into. Maybe its different for you in some ways but I know you can agree with me that it totally sucks people EXPECT for a female person to be quiet, clean, weak, superficial, etc. Like.... when I was pre-puberty I was just another kid then suddenly I start changing physically and now I'm expected to change personality types too????? I felt like some kind of insect supposed to change from ugly little worm to dazzling butterfly while all the awesome male children were gaining these super powers and becoming smart buff guys. I was mortified when my best male friend beat me in arm wrestling. I was ALWAYS the winner. It was like being a boy but being terrible at it. (1/3)

(2/3) Full disclosure, you and I will disagree about a lot of things and I might get upset if you decide to do something really drastic *but* I won't tell you how to live your life or try to sabotage you. For example, I believe some people are born gay and other people are made that way through traumatic events or culture- however on the subject of transgender people I just don't believe its another orientation like gay/straight/bi. I've been looking into it for so long and really trying to understand not only how I feel but how others feel. It seems that there are 1.)people who have a fetish 2.)people who are traumatized 3.)people who are internally misogynistic/misandrist 4.)people who want to conform with society or what gives them more respect 5.)people who are gay but think they're trans. I definitely had all feelings 1-4 about myself (not lesbian though.)

(3/3) It took me a long ass time to realize "yeah I'm literally just a human being with female body parts, I can do whatever I want and I don't have to fit any fake standards or feel disgusting about myself." The whole transgender movement is just very hurt people believing that going through invasive and dangerous surgeries will cure them while doctors get rich off of it. I can no longer believe a human is ever "born in the wrong body" because no one's body is wrong. Maybe people with severe deformities or disabilities that can't live a fully functioning life have crappy bodies that need help (myself included) but its not ever shameful!!! The transgender movement seems more akin to plastic surgery addiction and gay conversion rather than real therapy. Maybe I'm wrong but the more I study the more I'm convinced.

I don't hate anyone who decides to transition partially or fully or just socially because I totally get why people think its the best decision for them. I just can't really go along with it much tbh. I went along with it for like 7 years, no joke, with friends online and in person. I even went on a date with a trans FTM person and it really felt like she was just another girl who doesn't fit the usual stereotypes. She would say "technically I'm a MAN" but dress up in skirts or put bows in her hair. Then she got mad if anyone called her a girl, like really dude? lol? And yes, I'm not into chicks- she totally swindled me! We were supposed to go to the craft store and suddenly she wanted dinner and a movie too lmao. I picked her up and she starts calling me her butch gf. I wasn't mad but lol that was not going to work. (1/2)

(2/2) Then she started dating this OLD guy who was 60 and GAY. I asked him "So why are you dating Mark if she doesn't have a peen??" That guy was a predator and made up some stupid crap about how he's only "mentally gay" not "physically gay." Like, mmkay, whatever. Sorry if this is TMI, also we were in our early 20's too and met at work. I have lots of even dumber stories about being like part of that 'community' for a while. I'm high key mean spirited but also have an intense love/hate for people of all identities. I was never mean to Mark or any of my other gay friends, we just didn't click like that and some of them take my mean attitude as being hateful. They can talk all day about how much they hate straight people idgaf lol. I could write up my identity in a huge list of 4 syllable words but tbh its much nicer to just exist as myself and let other people figure it out.

I feel like you and I are on the same frequency when it comes to this stuff. Of course there's people on all sides ready to vilify anyone who isn't a total fruit booter or a total redneck joe. I hate that people are really trying to use other people's identities to divide us. Its just a distraction so the rich elites can keep pushing all of us common people down. Its getting really nasty out there financially. Our cousin Ryan and his wife Devin just had to drive out an hour to the middle of nowhere to find baby formula. Rent is getting crazy expensive, taxes are rising, homelessness is rising, its totally nuts out here. We just started getting homeless people in this area last year and now I see at least 3 any time I make a quick trip. But you know people reaaaaaly care about what everyone is doing with their buttholes, huh? (1/2)

2/2 "Manly" stuff is freaking great. Efficient hair styles, good working athletic clothes, hobbies that are big brain activities. There's nothing wrong with that. Its all cultural anyway. In the middle east they're manly af and they all wear robes- or really man dresses haha. I wouldn't go up to a dude with a 3 foot beard and say brooooo that's a DRESS!!! But I digress, yeah its all trendy and marketing for a lot of people. Like grunge or goth or punk. Lol. I knew lots of people who were repping the gay merch and grew up 6 years later just to forget about all of that and have a very hetero and non subversive lifestyle.

(3/2) I used to RP when I was in middle school but it wasn't a super big thing and people really wanted to do sex*al more than I did- ew. I loved doing characters of all different genders, ages, races, orientations. Its good to explore that when you're younger. I don't think anything of what you're doing is geeky or dumb :) Its all good fun even if you cringe in the future or totally scrap 90% of your OC's

Dude, I like that about you. You have that fiery spirit. And you're right, most movies are knock off's and remakes now anyways. You'll figure it out with the clothes eventually, a lot of stores aren't meant for my body type either

that lady is fuc.king back to when the dinosaurs were around about a joke