Nobody else ACTUALLY cares about me

They say they want me to feel better when i am sad, they tell me they care, but what about when im not feeling upset? Why does nobody but them end off conversations with comforting things. Nobody else goes out of their way to do that for me-

Connor says "I love you fr" before he leaves Kyle tells me "I love you Eric :]" or "Ily bro no homo" or says some goofy thing My girlfriend calls me cheesy names and writes whole ass paragraphs on how muvh she loves me And that is it They are the only ones who really seem to care