Gave up. Spent to many hours on this. Some things were added and changed. Ocean has a lot of scars and they're really noticeable because of how deep they were. Called traumatic childhood. They are non-binary, go by he/they and is 26. Has 2 kids and is someone you have to spends months annoying them to even have them trust you a small bit unless they sense smth good from ya. They also are a leader of a famous gang that latterly kills criminals so they somewhat good