theres a term called toric, meaning Toric or quadrisian is a term used to describe a nonbinary person who is attracted to, interested in, or in a relationship with men/boys, exclusively or not.

i can see why you dont get it, but i'd rather use the term "gay" rather than "toric" because gay can be used as an umbrella term for many things and toric is not really well known in the lgbt community, but i can use the term NBLM meaning "non-binary love men"