I used to want to have a binder but figured out all of its limitations, what turns me off the most is the fact that when I get home and I take the binder off nothing will change
I will have the same body I had before-
Of course I deal with the “oh I thought you were a guy I’m sorry” once people see my chest but I’ve been presented as a girl my whole life so it’s not anything I’m not used to- I know who I am and if it’s hard for other people to understand I will explain it to the,
And if they don’t want to understand then that’s fine too, tldr I prefer not wearing binders because of the hassle that comes with them and would rather deal with people misgendering me but not everyone likes that trade off
people noticed my flat chest so i think i look a little manlier at least :) i really suffered without having a binder because i was really insecure and people kept commenting and
*ahem*
GRABBING my chest ..
so yeah that wasn't fun