If everyone finds joy from different things, is Joy nothing more than our perception? So what right have we to judge the odd ways some find Joy, when Joy can be found in anything?

When something percieved as "bad" happens to you, people care a lot less about what you do.

Everything is temporary, so why waste time trying to elongate our temporary existance when we could be enjoying what is a part of it?

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"Stranger Danger" yet every friend is originally a stranger.

I highly doubt heaven has free will- think of it like communism. You cannot have perfection if you have differances, because differances create conflict. Therefore, heaven is either void of differances (which we know it lacks physical form and human names, so is very possible) or is void of the emotion that causes these (which we also know is likely due to the "no tears" thing) or both.

So in a way, do we not live only one life?