It shouldn’t be that difficult to replace she/her with he/him or they/them,, I mean My mom is trying to refer to me in gender neutral manners And I appreciate that but That’s not what I really want right now,, I want people to use he/him Or one/one’s because I wanna test out if I like those pronouns or not.. And like My mother and father made it clear that they’ll never use my preferred name,, And it upsets me but- I can’t change how they feel,, And you know It does hurt when they deadname and misgender me but I don’t show it of talk to them about it.. And when I do talk to one of both of them about my pronoun usage I always have a breakdown

I wanna just be “normal” again but I can’t I wanna be comfortable but My parents aren’t helping me become more comfortable and happy in my skin,,

Whoever just liked this Don’t like my vents I find if T disrespectful

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