ugh
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So-its-me[OP]
30.04.2024 21:17
Linkmore rambling
So-its-me[OP]
30.04.2024 21:19
LinkGot advice from friends to be myself, but when I finally do, they get judgmental because I've changed -- It's natural to judge, but why hurt others' feelings instead of distancing yourself from them?
So-its-me[OP]
30.04.2024 21:26
LinkAnd then I apologize for being myself. "Why not just be yourself?" because you're going to judge me. But, of course, not all people are going to judge negatively. So, in the end, be yourself, ignore the criticism.
why did this become from rambling my problems to a short ted talk
i try to be myself and everyone just be side eyeing me LIKE HELLO at least I'm not tryna be "cool" around me friends
i'm gonna be up and honest. i used to try to be cool but it never worked. from talking a certain way (which i still do now, but i can't even help it atp it just comes naturally) and even sagging my pants (gay ass shit) to try to look tough. I still was myself, but i tried to be some sort of tough dude that i wasn't. this year, i don't care anymore. i'm myself. i have my best friends who actually care about me and vice versa, so i'm good.
so to end this off, **** them, if they don't support you being yourself, they're not your friends for real. i'm cool with a lot of people that aren't like me, but i'd never try to become friends with them because of the shit they put themselves around and in. so be yourself, and don't listen to a damn word they say.
Ngl they don't really sound like good friends
Tbh the ONLY time id get it is if you were mean or something
But I seriously doubt that THATS what happens when your bejjg yourself
theyre not good friends they should accept you for you no matter what thats what real friends do idk if this helps but im here for you and ill always accept you and be there for you
you can be yourself its okay to be yourself just dont worry about them you should be able to be yourself without feeling any type of shame or guilt because well...its you! so dont apologize for being you because youre amazing!